Do you hate taking initiative going to the gym, hate waking up early, loved to stay in bed, push work on others, don’t have a fixed schedule, hate taking showers, don’t have a fixed time for anything, or keep postponing the work we have to do?
Always say that I will start from the first of this month and then repeat the same habits stay in the same spot for hours and hate getting up. Live in an unclean environment or rely on others for cleaning and stay unclean yourself.
Do you start your work only when the given deadline is over your head? If any of these activities sound familiar, then you are nothing but a slob. You need to stop being proud of these are the patterns of a loser and that’s what you will be if you continue on this path.
Why is a person lazy?
Because we are happy with dreaming we want to be millionaires, date supermodels, buy arts, planes, luxury cars, owned houses, vacation homes and at the same time, we don’t want to do anything in our life that is deep inside a fantasy. Simply, I do not want to do anything and yet have everything.
We hated waking up early going to school, doing homework, studying, but we’re forced to do all these things by a parent under their supervision. These habits are installed in our brains, technology personalized or home technology itself is created to make you lazy.
You just have to sit in one place and it will be done for you. Can buy food, clothes, groceries, medicine, liquor, p0rn films, TV shows, security gates, cabs, cars, meetings, sign agreements, talk to anyone from any place in the world – visually verbally or textually all in just one place. How is this not making you lazy and then they’ll keep making easier for us because THEY know we will buy it.
They know we will keep buying until one day we’ll literally have to use a muscle to do all these things. Make us permanently lazy not because you’re still playing sports, hanging out, partying going to clubs-pubs, your friends’ houses, vacations on dates, shopping to malls, and do all sorts of in the name of fun your laziness is selective.
It is prejudiced, it is only focused on certain aspects of your life which honestly you find boring. You hate to study, work, learn, research, and love to do everything that is fun.
Want To Be Successful Without Working
The truth is you want to be successful but you don’t want to work for it. If a dog chases you, lazy or not lazy you run you’re a$$ off, why? Because walking lazily, in that case, is not a choice. When a girl calls you over and says there’s nobody home, you don’t stay in the same spot you get up take a shot and make a run to her place.
Laziness again disappears, why? This time is for fun for, of course, those who are single. If you get in a relationship, the person you really like then you would take any opportunity to meet that person. You’re only lazy when it is convenient for you, it’s a personal choice which is based on your freedom.
For example, when your boss orders you to finish and submit some work in few hours. You don’t have the choice to push it further, as a result, you do that work or else you know will get fired. Similarly, when you study on the last day of your examination because you’ve run out of time, now you simply have no other choice.
So, when you are not given a choice you are not lazy anymore but when you are on your own you find it convenient to destroy your own life. Basically, you are not lazy because you have to work under someone’s supervision or pressure but when it comes to things where if you are in charge, which is your life you just simply don’t care.
Despite what you say, you don’t want to be successful in reality because those who do are working their a$$es off. Say it honestly that I want to destroy my life because if I can work hard to get laid, maintain relationships, hang out, and the boys’ party, actively be part of social life, and play online games for hours.
The Harsh Reality
The only things you are avoiding is somehow related to work then you are a liar. So, the truth is that most of us are lazy because we have not taken full control of our lives yet. We are still unconsciously waiting for some kind of guidance manual or authority supervision to make us do things. Not realizing that we have moved way past that phase and it’s not going to happen.
Except for the control of your life. You are on your own your parents. You will notice that your well-wishers and your “friends” see you as a funny or interesting person but they have no interest or investment in your success. They don’t really care; they might be sad for a second if you fail but they will move on, quickly. So, right now your life is in your hands only. You are its master.
Think about what your parents had to do to evolve you, where you are right now? Even as a kid, you didn’t want to study, wanted to sleep, and only wanted to have fun but they pushed you. So, now in their absence since you are grown up, you will have to push yourself. The responsibility is now yours to get yourself out of that scream on yourself if you’re wasting time punish yourself by grounding yourself if you have to.
If you had made plans for the evening but the whole day you didn’t study or work or do whatever you were meant to then drop those evening plans. Discipline yourself, laziness is a choice. You choose not to work and by making that choice you stop your personal evolution.
Understand why you procrastinate. Whenever you have some work to do, you push it forward by bull$hitting yourself that you’re going to start in 15 minutes. You will notice, in those 15 minutes, you might text, checkout pictures, or checkout online content. You have millions of options and online streaming platforms that are pushing their content on you, addictive great interesting content, and their goal is your permanent subscription.
To get you hooked on it which is a language used to distract addiction. You hate to work and on the other hand you many hours of new content that you love. It’s obvious what you’re going to choose now. They are doing their work amazingly because it’s their job but because of them you are up to your world and your life and still, the blame falls on your head.
Manage Your Time
You are the one who wants to manage your content and time. The truth is the only thing consistently good at is lying to ourselves. We all pretend to give ourselves a break of 15 minutes, that’s a lie. “I had only watched this video like I am not addicted to my phone”, it’s a lie.
You think that “Will do it tomorrow in the last three days or probably after three months but once I start I will just lock myself up and work for 10-12 hours a day”, like… what will you gain by lying to yourself? What will you say to a person who is training for some sporting event and they tell you that I’m going to start practicing in the last three days or the last month for 80 knots and win the gold medal?
You will tell them training doesn’t work that way then why are you bull$hitting yourselves? The same way because you are in charge of your life and it only proves that you don’t value yourself at all. In fact, you see yourself as a loser.
Start now understand the value of time or somebody else will replace you in seconds because they weren’t bull$hitting themselves.